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Paper Wedding Flowers: DIY Wedding Centerpieces and Bouquets

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Michelle did not have real flowers at her wedding. Instead, she opted for paper wedding flowers.  Hundreds of them.

A week after Michelle got engaged she bought origami paper. (Most of it came from kimscrane.com.) Her mom used a lily origami pattern that came from a calendar featuring origami designs to make the paper wedding flowers.

lilycouple“I’ve never really cared for cut flowers, but my mother and I have always been crafty,” says Michelle, whose mom folded every origami lower.

Michelle points out that it was her mother’s first attempt at origami.

“When she gets into a project like that she just doesn’t stop. I think that’s why we had so many extra flowers to decorate other places,” says Michelle.

paper flowers weddingThe paper wedding flowers were used for centerpieces, as well as bridal bouquets and even boutonneires. And guests got to take them home as keepsakes.

“I am really glad we made them instead of getting real flowers. They were more personal, customizable, and durable,” she says, adding that she and her hubby recently celebrated their first annivesary and the flowers are still thriving all over the country (with a few in Japan).

Want to learn how to make origami paper lilies? Check out this step by step tutorial. Or watch the video on how to make origami lilies.

Looking for more paper flower ideas? Check out this tutorial on DIY wedding centerpieces made from egg cartons.

Have a ‘Wow’ Wedding on a Budget with the Five “C’s”

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Can you have a fabulous wedding on a budget? Yes You Can. How?

 1. Courage. If you are planning a wedding on a budget, you’ll have some tough decisions to make in the upcoming months and one of those decisions will involve who you are going to invite to your wedding. Cutting back the wedding guest list to include only those who are close to you is the best way to reduce your wedding costs, but if you have a large family and a big circle of friends, this will not be easy. It will take courage to make the necessary cuts – and to face the uninvited. Just keep in mind that there’s a good chance that some of your friends and distant family might actually feel relieved that they don’t have to come up with hundreds of dollars in travel expenses and wedding gifts during these tough economic times.

 2. Conviction. Go ahead and get starry-eyed over dreamy pictures of big budget weddings. Drool on your keyboard if you must, at wedding inspiration boards that look delicious enough to devour, but do not be tempted to give in to anything you can’t afford. Realize that you can create a fabulous event – that is true to you and your partner – without blowing your budget.

 3. Creativity. The DIY wedding movement is white hot, and the lousy economy is fanning the flames. Brides are doin’ it for themselves because they realize that they can save bundles of money – and create a more personal and meaningful event with their own DIY touches. And one doesn’t have to be Martha Stewart to pull it off. There’s a plethora of websites on how to make everything from bridal centerpieces to edible favors. Bridal forums and DIY wedding books are also great resources for how-to info. The earlier you plan the more time you’ll have for DIY wedding projects.

 4. Community. Why not get your friends and family involved in the wedding details? Maybe your uncle is a brilliant guitar player. Ask him to play at your ceremony. Maybe your sister-in-law is a graphic designer. Request her help for your invitations. Does your aunt bake raspberry cheesecake to die for? Ask for her help with the dessert table. Generally, friends and family are happy to get involved. Just make sure you show heaps of gratitude for their assistance. (Homemade chocolate chip cookies will warm hearts.)

 5. Calm. There will be days when you feel overwhelmed, crazy even. You will wonder how in the world you are going to pull it off without going over budget. Take a deep breath, and trust in the process. A wonderful wedding is waiting for you at the end of this challenging journey. It’s your job to stay on the path that leads to this destination without losing any friendships along the way (conflicts often occur during times of stress) and without spending money you don’t have. If you are feeling frazzled, frustrated and afraid, remember to keep calm and realize that in the end it’s all about the love.

Photo: Julie and Jon’s Art Nouveau $10,000 wedding. Tinywater Photography.

IW Hot Shot!: Gizmo the Ringbearer

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I come across a heck of a lot of great wedding photography as I peruse the web for wedding info, so I’ve decided to create something new over here at IntimateWeddings.com. It’s called the IW Hot Shot! and it will give me a chance to highlight some of the great photos that catch my eye.

Look for it every Sunday.

This week’s IW Hot Shot! goes to Amy Wood Photography for her black and white shot of Gizmo the Ringbearer. I love black and white. I own a papillon (I own a border collie too). And damn it, this is a great shot!

Free Wedding Templates: DIY Wedding Paper Fortune Cookies

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I admit it. Post-Chinese food, I usually crack open the fortune cookie just to see what’s inside. Often, I don’t eat the cookie because it’s stale and slightly musty. I just want to get at the secret message to read about how wise and insightful I am:)

I really like the idea of fortune cookies for weddings. Not necessarily the edible kind – although I’m sure the homemade ones are de-lish. I like the fabric fortune cookies, like the ones I blogged about over here. Or the ones made of paper.

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I came across this fabulous free template for creating your own fortune cookie made out of paper over at Kind over Matter.

Although I love the concept of leaving these ‘kindness messages’ behind for strangers to find, I think these would make really fun favors or great for ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ messages. Simply customize with your own message.

And if you are making donations instead of giving wedding favors, wouldn’t this be a great way to let your guests know you are donating to charity?

DIY Wedding Ideas: Where to Find Inspiration

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Want to know some of my favorite places to find DIY wedding ideas?

1. Google Images - This is such a handy dandy tool for finding DIY wedding ideas, I’m not sure I could blog without it! Google Images retreives only images of your search query. This is great if you are looking for ideas on a particular DIY wedding project. I use this A LOT!

2. Flickr- I just recently joined Flickr and have quickly realized what a wonderful resource it is for DIY wedding ideas. Simply type in your search query, and you will be flooded with images on your given topic.

3. Websites – In recent months I’ve come across a couple of sites that I find particularly useful. iDIY has a ton of great ideas for creating a DIY wedding. The Wedding Channel’s My DIY Wedding Day, which launched a few months ago, is quickly becoming a popular site for DIY wedding ideas. Another site I really dig is One PrettyThing which has links to oodles of DIY projects.

4. Books – I’m crazy about my local library and recently picked up a couple of helpful books: The Michael’s Book of Paper Crafts and The Michael’s Book of Wedding Crafts. The DIY Bride and Martha Stewart’s Encyclopedia of Crafts are also full of great DIY projects.

I’d love to hear about where you find inspiration. Got favorite websites or books with DIY ideas? Do tell!

16 DIY Wedding Place Cards

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Stamped DIY wedding place cards.

DIY candy bar place cards.

Paper bird place cards.

DIY stamped place cards.

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DIY place cards made from wooden Scrabble tiles.

Paper place cards made from wooden Scrabble tiles.

Place cards made with buttons.

 DIY origami boat place card.

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 Fall leaves place cards.

Love doves place cards.

Destination wedding place cards.

DIY wedding place cards made from wood.

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Potted herb place cards.

Popcorn place cards.

Place cards with vintage typewriter keys.

Place cards with ribbon.

The Brides’ Project: Donate Your Dress and Make a Difference

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A few weeks ago, a reader inquired about finding places to donate wedding dresses after the Big Day. I did a little research and found The Brides’ Project in Toronto, Canada.

The Brides’ Project receives gown donations from both corporate sponsors and brides. The proceeds from the sales of its preowned wedding dresses and accessories is donated to charities that help children with cancer. I was pretty ‘wowed’ by what I read about The Brides’ Project, so I contacted the place to find out if they accept dresses from the U.S. as well as Canada. Here’s what they said:

We accept and receive donations from all over. Any donations can be mailed to us at 431 Broadview Ave, Toronto, ON, M4K 2N2.

What a fabulous way to give back!

Watch a video about The Brides’ Project here.

Photo: Bride wearing a preowned wedding dress from The Brides’ Project.

Real Weddings: Carrie & Matthew’s Elegant B&B Wedding in North Carolina

 

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Carrie  33 & Matthew, 27

Raleigh, NC

Wedding Date:  May 2, 2009

Number of Guests:  37

Wedding Cost:  $14,000

Wedding Ceremony Location:  Chateau Bellevie, Fuquay-Varina, NC

Wedding Reception Location:  Chateau Bellevie, Fuquay-Varina, NC

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Why did you have an intimate wedding? 

The first decision we had to make about our wedding was where and how many people to invite.  We considered having our wedding in Chicago since that is my hometown and where the majority of my large family resides.  The guest list kept growing and planning a wedding from NC was proving to be difficult.  Although Matthew and I wanted to include everyone in my family, we secretly desired a small, intimate wedding.  While the search continued to find a suitable location in Chicago, Matthew and I were researching locations in North Carolina.  It didn’t take long for Matthew and I to find the location we knew in our hearts to be “the one”. 

As much as we know it is a huge commitment in our lives, there is no reason why we should go into debt over it. That surely would not make a happy husband and wife!  Once we started looking into the cost of having a large wedding, it only added to our decision to downscale everything to make it more intimate and affordable.  Almost everything we did was DIY.  We pretty much purchased everything from Michael’s to make the invitations, place cards, thank you cards, programs, centerpieces, and the out of town care packages for guests.  

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The Handwritten Wedding: Handwriting a Hot Trend

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The handwritten note is dead. Paved over by pixels. Bludgeoned by bytes. It’s been gone for years. Thrown to the curb like the things found at the back of closets during spring cleaning. Or is it?

 

According to The NY Times, handwritten typeface is back with a vengeance. Apparently, the word of sleek graphics have left us longing for the DIY approach to lettering. We’ve all seen this trend in the world of weddings too, where calligraphy is all the rage. Heck, you can even turn your own handwriting into a font.

 

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That said, I can’t remember the last time I sat down to write (not type)  a letter to a loved one? Can you? Maybe it’s time to whip out the stationery and get nostalgic. That is, if I remember how to write:)

 

Photo One: NY Times Magazine; Photo Two: Paperfinger

What Wedding Guests Like (and Dislike) about Weddings

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What do male wedding guests like the most about attending a wedding?

Food.

And women?

The ceremony.

Want to read more about what  wedding guests like and dislike about weddings? Read Wedding Guests Rank the Ceremony High, the Receiving Line low in Philly.com

It will give you one more reason to have a small wedding sans receiving line!

Photo: Natalie and Leon’s Outdoor Wedding photographed by Erin Wallis Photography

DIY Wedding Favors: Recipe Books

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Yesterday, I blogged about Lauren and Andrews wonderful DIY wedding with a forest theme. Today, I’m sharing their DIY wedding favors: recipe books.

For wedding favors the couple put together a family recipe binder (that’s Lauren’s sister in the photo).

Lauren had 4×6 cards printed with recipes that the guests had submitted with their reply cards. She placed the cards inside a mini binder and voila – a recipe book!

“Our reply cards were folded cards that contained an optional section in which guests could share a favorite family recipe.  I also received several recipes from women at my shower.  We typed them all up and printed them onto 4 x 6 cards at a local copy shop. Then they got punched and put into small, blank binders I ordered in bulk from Maya Road.  I printed the labels on my inkjet.  We gave them to guests in attendance and mailed them to guests who couldn’t make it along with our thank you notes.  We chose to use 4 x 6″ cards so that guests could add other recipe cards to the binder later on if they wanted to.  Each binder cost $3 to make,” says Lauren.

Simple and sweet!

Photo: Erica Berger

A DIY Wedding with a Forest Theme

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What happens when two designers get married? They have a fabulously unique DIY wedding!

Lauren and Andrew had a DIY wedding with a forest theme. Their wedding was held at Stern Grove, which is a small redwood grove in San Francisco. 

“We loved the symbolism inherent in redwood trees (continuity, adaptability, longevity) so we decided to use them as the theme for our wedding,” says Lauren.

The couple DIY’ed everything except for the food and the flowers. With a little help from their friends and family, they created a personal and meaningful event that everyone enjoyed (and that didn’t cost a fortune!)

Even Lauren’s goddess dress was handmade.

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Lauren writes:

“I worked with dressmaker Theresa LaQuey to make a 40s-style goddess dress I designed for my wedding. She did a great job with the fit and construction and came up with the awesome knot in the back. It cost less than half of the typical off-the-rack dress and I got a one-of-kind gown that was literally made for me! The darker panels are actually green, which you can see in other photos.”

And check out the DIY invitations.

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“This is the pride and joy of our DIY wedding efforts,” says Lauren. “I’m a product designer and my husband does graphic design, so these invitations were our big splurge item in terms of time and money.”

Lauren and Andrew created these chipboard invitation wheels to give guests a creative way to get all their information in an heirloom keepsake format. They are made from two circles of untreated, recycled chipboard diecut and letterpressed to look like an old planting wheel with redwood rings on it. 

The couple came up with the design, including the die lines and color separations.  They ordered the die and the untreated chipboard and then had a letterpress printer use his press to do the actual cutting and printing. 

“We did the final assembly of the wheel ourselves using wooden plugs and steel washers we got at the local hardware store.  We printed our reply cards ourselves using an inkjet for the back and a Riso Gocco for the front.  We ordered big, square, recycled paper envelopes and did all the assembly/addressing/mailing ourselves,” she says.

Total cost was about $10 each including $2 per invitation in postage.  Approximate time to make was 20 hours in total.

Now on to the wonderfully quirky table names. (I love what she says about the grandmas. That happens sometimes:)

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Lauren writes:

“My husband is an artist, and one of his projects is a series of tiny disaster sculpture made with HO scale model railroad figures.  Our parents are always trying to get us to move back east by citing the myriad disasters we have here in California so we thought it would be funny to name each table after a California disaster.  We had table names like “mudslide,” “tidal wave” and “wild fire.”  Guests had to find the centerpiece sculpture that depicted their disaster in order to locate their table.  Most people had a good laugh over it but our grandmothers were confused.”

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Guest name cards were made from wood.

“I made these by renting a mitre saw from a tool rental facility to cut a eucalyptus branch one of the gardeners at Stern Grove gave to me from the mulch pile.  I had my husband carry it up the stairs (it weighed nearly 100 pounds), fired it up, and had 90 cross-section disks in about 20 minutes.  The dust gets everywhere despite the dust bag, so I put down a tarp to do this (we don’t have outdoor space) and wore a respirator mask.  The disks that were cut a little too roughly I sanded down with my Dremel tool.  I then printed the text for both  sides onto clear inkjet labels and cut them out with a circle cutter. I stuck the labels in place and smoothed them down.  Our florist brought a tray with moss in it for me to display them,” explains Lauren.

There’s one more lovely little DIY project that Andrew and Lauren had for their wedding: The favors! Stay tuned for tomorrow’s blog post.

Photos: Erica Berger

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