Rhys and Melissa had a gorgeous backyard wedding in Kelowna, BC with their immediate family. During their search for a wedding venue, they realized that their own backyard – complete with chicken coop, pond, vineyard and garden – was the perfect fit.

“We realized, standing on our patio looking out at the lake, that home is where the heart is, and with that the wedding location was chosen.”

Melissa, who is a hairstylist in Kelowna that travels on site for weddings, has seen her share of stressed out brides over the years. Having a small wedding, and letting vendors take care of all the details kept her from becoming one of them.

“(Hiring out everything) eliminated any stress we had because it was all up to them,” says Melissa. “(We) let the professionals do what they do best; it’s art and you will get a better outcome if you let them have fun with it.”

Thanks to Jessica Zais Photography for the stunning photos!
Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

Rhys, 29 & Melissa, 29

Kelowna, BC, Canada

Wedding Date: February 15, 2012

Number of Guests: 6

Wedding Cost: $6,000

Wedding Ceremony Location: Private Residence, Kelowna, BC

Wedding Reception Location: Private Residence, Kelowna, BC

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

sparkly black wedding shoes

Why did you have an intimate wedding?  

For every wedding we have ever been to or worked for, we always noticed that the bride and groom were stressed out over EVERYTHING. We felt that on the day of the wedding we would only really spend our time with our immediate family, and no one else. We didn’t want to ask everyone to spend hundreds of dollars to come and watch us for a matter of hours. Really, we just wanted to have a killer costume party with all the bells and whistles to celebrate and say thank you to all our family for all the unconditional love and support they have given us over the past 6 years together.

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

multi-colored ribbon garland

black wedding linens

multi-colored flower centerpiece

black and gold wedding linens

gold chiavari chairs with black drape

What are some of the challenges that you faced planning an intimate wedding?

 No major challenges, just which vendors to go with and to keep in mind back-ups for any sudden issues that could come up.  And being a hair stylist myself, I decided to take on all the hair for myself and all other 7 people, ( I pre-practiced what I was going to do on each and every guest making it a no brainer on the day). Being a vintage bohemian theme, I wanted to showcase my talents and passion and challenge myself to work under pressure.  When it was all said and done it was very fulfilling knowing I pulled it all together.

multi-colored wedding bouquet

Intimate Boho Wedding

Intimate  Boho B.C. Wedding

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

Intimate Boho Winter Wedding

Intimate Boho Wedding

Intimate Boho Wedding

playful bride and groom portrait

romantic bride and groom field portrait

dusk wedding portrait

dusk wedding portrait

romantic bride and groom portrait

dusk wedding portrait

black and white wedding dress

Was it difficult to pare down the guest list?

Nope, just immediate family was pretty clear.  You can’t get mad at that, and with a large extended family it was a no brainer; our pocket books are happier for that and we got to use the extra money towards amazing vendors.

black sparkly wedding shoes

vintage bride

vintage-inspired bride

vintage-inspired bride

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

multi-colored wedding bouquet

bride and rooster

 

Did you have any issues with the small guest list from friends and family? If so, how did you address them?

No we simply said it was a money and economical thing and that they would all be there in spirit and we would show them all the photos from the day so that they didn’t miss a thing.

multi-colored ribbon garland

flower girl tutu

cat bow tie

What were the highlights of the ceremony?

The highlight of the ceremony was that we did nothing traditional.  We walked each other down the aisle (bride and groom) and seeing the 6 most important people waiting for us at the altar made any anticipation minimal. It felt very relaxed and grounding. We loved how everyone was dressed up in 1950′s attire with skinny ties, vintage fur coats and personal family heirlooms. Our one-year old daughter was a big part of the ceremony – she gave us our rings, pulled one at a time out of the ring box and handing them to us. Precious.  The bohemian ribbon and lantern alter, decor and flowers were to die for. It was all a perfect surprise to us on the day as to what it would look like. We are so happy we had Stage Right Etc take care of all the details, they were amazing. We also lucked out with fantastic weather. It was a sunny, warm spring day in the middle of February and it ended up snowing the following morning, so the timing was amazing.

outdoor winter B.C. wedding reception

multi-colored ribbon garland ceremony backdrop

Outdoor wedding ceremony

black birdcage veil

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

What were the highlights of the reception? 

The highlight of the reception was that we had no idea what it was going to look like and walking in to a room filled with hundreds of candles was a speechless moment that we all shared. Our close friend and sous chef Chris Braun blew us all away with the most amazing food that he created and it left our tummies in love with him. Our families have always enjoyed a good camp fire, and being the middle of February, the idea of cuddling around a fire with hundreds of twinkling LED lanterns seemed like the perfect way to end a perfect day.

black and gold wedding linens

gold chiavari chairs and gold tassels

gold candle holders

multi-colored wedding bouquet

glam boho table setting

glam boho table setting

glamorous bohemian wedding reception

glam bohemian ceterpieces

black and gold wedding favors

What was the best thing about having an intimate wedding?

We got to enjoy every moment with our family, and we all became so much closer having shared such a relaxed and full-filling intimate day together.  Also, we were really able to go crazy with all the details, fashion, food, flowers, candles – absolutely everything. And guests don’t have to wait around while we were having our photos taken, because they’re in most of them.

black and gold table setting

romantic bohemian wedding reception

romantic bohemian wedding reception

gold candleholders

bohemian centerpiece

floating candle decor

floating candle decor

 

romantic bohemian wedding reception

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

 

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

playful bride and groom portrait

What advice do you have for couples who are considering an intimate wedding?

Our advice would be to keep it small with just the immediate family (who can argue with that). Hire out everything for your wedding, (makeup, hair, wedding planning/decor/floral, catering, photography, cakes, etc). Keep your venue close to home (great on the pocket book).  Let go of all power and let the professionals do what they do best; it’s art and you will get a better outcome if you let them have fun with it, giving minimal guidelines like colors and personal style/feel or mood.  Have realistic expectations; the less traditional you are the better and more relaxed your day will be. Make sure to add your own personal important little touches and involve the guests in the day as it makes it their wedding too (actions speak louder then money or words).

 

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

playful bride and groom portrait

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

 

Intimate Kelowna Boho Wedding

boho wedding bonfire

boho wedding bonfire

Vendors:

Wedding planning/ decor/florals: Stage Right Etc, Kelowna, BC.

Catering: Chris Braun – Sous chef at the Vintage Room (Coast Capri Hotel ), Kelowna, BC.

Mini cakes: Whisk Cakes, Kelowna, BC.

Hair: Melissa Dacre, Kelowna, B.C.

Makeup: Bri Stein, Kelowna, BC.

Melissa’s Dress: Stop Staring Clothing

Photographer: Jessica Zais Photography

 

Pin It
 
11 Comments  |  Filed Under: At-Home Weddings, Budget Weddings ($10,000 or less), Real Weddings, Vintage Weddings

Leave a Comment

Name
Email
Website

Comment Policy:

We love your comments, but we like to keep conversations constructive. Anything that we deem as mean-spirited, rude or downright nasty will not be tolerated.

If you are a business owner or wedding blogger, please use your real name not your business name or blog title. Comments are not the right place to advertise your business. If you would like to advertise, please click here for our advertising options.

Comments

  1. Posted by irish on March 26th, 2012 at 8:56am

    Beautiful pictures, so natural, love the color combinations
  2. Posted by Nicole on March 26th, 2012 at 10:52am

    omg, the cat with the bow tie--priceless!!
  3. Posted by Stacey on March 26th, 2012 at 11:11am

    I love the picture with the bride and (who I assume to be) her father. As a daddy's girl myself, I love pictures with that kind of emotion. :) Also, the lighting on all these shots is just amazing . . .
  4. Posted by Damaris Mia @ Le Magnifique on March 28th, 2012 at 2:59am

    Amazing. Love love love!
  5. Posted by Janelle Morcombe on March 28th, 2012 at 6:09pm

    So beautiful. So romantic. So fun! Love the photos, Jessica! Wow...
  6. Posted by Claire (Mother of the Bride) on March 28th, 2012 at 10:40pm

    As the mother of the bride this was a BREEZE and totally FUN. We all had a wonderful day together celebrating Melissa, Rhys and Mika. Just a great relaxed day and after party at the fire too.
  7. Posted by Lisa Voigt on March 28th, 2012 at 11:22pm

    Melissa is my cousin, I was so happy for her and Rhys to enjoy such a small and amazing wedding. I can't imagine a more perfect way for these two to celebrate their wedding day! The fact that it was documented so perfectly is an absolute bonus. INCREDIBLE photos.....absolutely perfect! I was so glad to hear that Melissa was just stoked about the upcoming event instead of being stressed, she had a lot of great people helping her out. :)
  8. Posted by Amy on April 5th, 2012 at 11:42am

    Your unconventional wedding is an inspiration!
    I love that you did not wear white and that you did not wear a wedding dress! Your wedding is a great inspiration for a girl who wants to wear a navy blue lace dress for her wedding. :) Thanks for sharing your beautiful photos. Congratulations to you both!
  9. Posted by Sian on June 20th, 2012 at 8:58am

    This is amazing - favourite wedding I've seen in months and months. Really stunning and it looks like you all had such a lovely time. Gorgeous.
  10. Posted by Joanne on March 21st, 2013 at 1:21am

    Beautiful wedding! Yelled AWWWW at the picture of the Bride & her dad! SO CUTE!
  11. Posted by Susie on January 12th, 2014 at 8:33pm

    So absolutely amazing!! Love everything!, the candle settings are to die for!
  Older Post
Destination Weddings in the Outer Banks
Newer Post  
Wedding Tea Leaf Bar
Want to tap into more than 500,000 unique visitors per month? Advertise with us!
  • Search
  • Categories
  • Archives
  • Wedding Invitiations
  • wedding dresses

Find Intimate Weddings on Pinterest