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Real Weddings: Corey and Christopher’s Beach Wedding in NC

beach wedding in nc

Corey, 28 & Christopher, 33

Whalehead Beach in Corolla, NC

Wedding Date:  August 17, 2007

Number of Guests:  43

Wedding Cost: $25,000 (This does not include the cost of rental houses that were rented for all of the guests for the week). 

Wedding Ceremony Location:  On the beachfront in Whalehead Beach in Corolla, NC

Wedding Reception Location:  The Saltaire Event Home in Duck, NC

beach wedding couple

Why did you have an intimate wedding? 

Both my husband and I didn’t want the crowd of people that we’d be forced to invite if we stayed home and had a wedding.  We both wanted a small private affair with our closest friends and family.  My father had died a year before the wedding, my father-in-law also died the month before, so we were both glad that we planned it this way in the end. 

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Real Weddings: Lindsay and Tim’s Beach Destination Wedding in Mexico

beach wedding ceremony in Mexico photo by Kate Harrison

Lindsay, 27  & Tim, 26

San Pancho, Mexico

Wedding Date: June 14th, 2008

Number of Guests: 18 

Wedding Cost: $8,000

Wedding Ceremony Location: Private beach in San Pancho, Mexico.

Wedding Reception Location: The palapa at Bungalows Lydia.

bride on beach in Mexico photo by Kate HarrisonWhy did you have an intimate wedding?

We wanted to keep it casual.  I felt that we could focus on each other, our families, and having a good time rather than sweating over the insignificant details.

What are some the challenges that you faced planning an intimate wedding?

Initially I was worried about offending people by not inviting them, but then we decided to take it across the border. Having the wedding in Mexico gave us a great excuse to keep the guest list small.

 
Was it difficult to pare down the guest list?  

Not for me.  We only invited immediate family members and one friend each. Easy.

 
groom on beach photo by Kate HarrisonDid you have any ‘issues’ with the small guest list from friends and family?  

Some people gave me a hard time about it– but mostly in good fun.

If so, how did you address them?

Actually the guests we had completely maxed out the quaint hotel/bungalow location. Adding people to the guest list would have complicated the accommodations and the “add-ons” would end up having to stay some place else.  Considering that the bungalow was 3K into the jungle that would have been a pretty big inconvenience. 

What were the highlights of the ceremony?

The beautiful beach setting and the stroll we took immediately afterward.

What were the highlights of the reception?  

Again, the setting was gorgeous.  The dinner took place under a thatched roof palapa at sunset, while our fresh seafood was grilled on the spot.  After dinner, we danced on a sandy patio that served as a dance floor.

beach wedding couple in Mexico photo by Kate HarrisonWhat was the best thing about having an intimate wedding?

The wedding was truly about having a good time with the people you love, rather than making sure everyone is happy and having a good time.  We didn’t have to bother with social graces or going through motions we really weren’t interested in just because it was someone else’s expectation.

What advice do you have for couples who are considering an intimate wedding?  

Just do it.  I know that some people dream of a big church wedding, but that just wasn’t for us.  I have always been grateful that we did it the way we did.

couple dancing on the beach in Mexico photo by Kate HarrisonVendors:  

Planner: Mar Weddings took care of everything for us– they worked tirelessly to make our special day happen.

Venue: Bungalows Lydia

Photographer: Kate Harrison Photography

Photos: Kate Harrison Photography

Real Weddings: Jennifer and Richard’s Beach Wedding in Galveston, Texas

Beach wedding

Jennifer, 22  and Richard, 21

Houston, Texas

Wedding Date: May 30, 2008

Number of Guests: 75

 Wedding Cost:  $3,000

 Wedding Ceremony Location: Stewart Beach, Galveston, Texas

 Wedding Reception Location: Wedding Chapel , Galveston, Texas

 beach weddingWhy did you have an intimate wedding?

We knew that not all of my family  was going to be able to attend since they are out of town, so we planned for all his local family to attend plus some of my close friends. Also, since we were paying for it all ourselves, we knew that we had to keep the guest list below 100.

 What are some of the challenges that you faced planning an intimate wedding?

The hardest thing was our location. We originally planned a restaurant ceremony but were faced with last minute seasonal inflation charges and we had to find a new ceremony location fast. Luckily our ceremony venue was understanding and was able to accommodate us.

Was it difficult to pare down the guest list?

It was hard to not invite everyone we knew but we already knew that most of my family was unable to attend and so we filled in those slots with close friends.

 Did you have any ‘issues’ with the small guest list from friends and family? If so, how did you address them?

We didn’t really run into any trouble with anyone asking to come who weren’t already invited. Most people we talked to understood that we were young, and since we were paying for it ourselves, knew the wedding would be small.

beach ceremony What were the highlights of the ceremony?

The intimacy. I loved how it wasn’t a traditional “sit down” ceremony. All the guests were up close and personal with us. We faced our guests instead of having our backs to them which was great.

What were the highlights of the reception?

I think everyone really enjoyed our slideshow that our maid of honor and Richard put together. We had pictures of us growing up from before we met and then tons of us together over the years. The songs they chose really fit our personalities. Also I personally found the toasts from the maid of honor and best man very touching.

 What was the best thing about having an intimate wedding?

Being able to visit each and every guest and actually holding a conversation. We got to thank each person personally and hug everyone goodbye at the end of the night.

What advice do you have for couples who are considering an intimate wedding?

I really wish more couples would consider having one. I know that most people want to have as many people there as possible but at the end of the night, all the people that mean the most to you are the ones that you’ll see the following days, weeks, etc. and those will be the ones you’ll talk about the wedding with. It’s great knowing that you were able to talk to and thank everyone individually.

 Vendors:

Dress: Custom by Helen Touchet

Cake: Custom by Melanie Lance

Photography: Freelance by Amanda Schilling from AP Schilling Events and Professional by John Stone Photography

Flowers: Grapevine Florist

Hair: Tisha Varas

Tux: Al’s Formalwear

Ceremony/Reception: Wedding Chapel

Photos: Amanda Schilling from AP Schilling Events

How to have a Beach Wedding that Rocks

beach wedding couple

For some couples the most romantic place on earth is the beach. Why not get married there?

From the water’s edge in Santori, Greece, to the pristine shores of Tofino on Vancouver Island, beach weddings continue to be a popular alternative to more traditional weddings.

Beach weddings appeal to couples looking to cut costs, but are also popular with couples with extravagant budgets.

Wedding Planner Kathy Piech-Lukas, owner of Your Dream Day, a special events planning company in Cincinnati, Ohio, says she’s seen some fabulous beach weddings since she started her business six years ago.

She says most are a little more on the casual side, with less formal attire.

“Most girls wear sun dresses and guys wear khakis,” she says.

Although some couples choose to have their guests stand during the ceremony, Piech-Luckas says chairs are also a nice touch. However, she cautions against using the ever-popular Chiavari chairs, which will sink into the sand and possibly break.

“Couples should use white Samsonite folding chairs or white wooden chairs for a beach wedding,” she says.

Another helpful tip for beach brides is to make sure a sound system is rented.

“For any outdoor wedding with more than 40 people, you need amplification – especially on the lake,” she says. “Make sure you have a microphone and generators to run the power and make sure musicians who are outdoors have amplification.”

Outdoor garb

Since going shoeless on the beach is the norm, Piech-Lukas says that some brides opt for a “shoe valet” so that guests don’t have to worry about getting sand in their shoes.

“Guests check in their shoes and receive tags to reclaim their shoes after the wedding,” she says, adding that guests also receive a pre-moistened towel to wash their feet before putting their shoes back on.

And what kinds of shoes are the brides putting back on? Sandy Trimmer, manager at Bridal Chateau Inc. in Williamsville, NY, located just outside Buffalo, says flip flops are all the rage for brides having outdoor weddings – whether they are tying the knot on a beach, or in a park.

“They’ve got a wedge heel which is great for outdoor weddings because it’s easier to walk around. You don’t have to worry about your heels getting stuck in the ground,” she says, adding that the bridal flip flops at Bridal Chateau Inc. retail for $29.95 and are as “comfortable as slippers.”

The flip flops come in ivory, satin and white and are dressed up with beads and sequins.

According to Trimmer, some outdoor brides still want all the glamour of an extravagant gown, but most opt for something less formal.

“A lot of girls are looking for something simpler, with less beadwork. They also want something straighter and not as full,” she says, adding that chiffon and silk taffeta are popular fabrics for outdoor weddings because they are lighter than many other fabrics and don’t require as much “babysitting” throughout the day.

Trimmer says half of brides choose not to wear a veil. Those who choose to wear one often go for the short variety – especially for outdoor weddings.

“The forties netting is really popular. It’s very pretty,” she says, adding that the vintage look is also popular for gowns.

Trimmer says that perhaps the biggest trend – not only for beach weddings, but weddings in general, is that the rules for what not to wear are far more relaxed than they used to be.

“It’s pretty much the bride’s choice these days. There aren’t a lot of do’s and don’ts,” she says.

But there’s one rule that beach brides should always follow: Have a back up plan.

Mother Nature is as unpredictable as she is beautiful. And the last thing you want is rain to extinguish your wedding day bliss.

Photo: Erin Wallis Photography

Real Weddings: Amanda and Casey’s B.C. Wilderness Wedding

Beach Wedding, Amanda and Casey. Photo by Erin Wallis.

Amanda, 28 and Casey, 29

Cortes Island, British Columbia, Canada.

Number of Guests: 4

Wedding Ceremony Location: Hollyhock Centre, by the beach.

Wedding Reception Location: We had more of a celebration than a reception. We stayed at Hollyhock Centre and enjoyed the ocean view deck, fire pit, and solar hot tub.

Beach Wedding. Photo by Erin Wallis.Why did you have an intimate wedding?

A few reasons, all equally important. I wanted to avoid potentially difficult family tension that could have spoiled the magic of our wedding day, as well as the stress a bride often feels on a typical wedding day schedule which, while exciting, is actually pretty grueling. Lastly, I also wanted us to experience the tranquility and beauty of our chosen location without distraction and hurry. I felt we could best do that if it was just our attendants and us. And it was perfect! We went with our instincts and had a spirited, beautiful wedding.

What are some the challenges that you faced planning an intimate wedding?

See below.

Was it difficult to pare down the guest list?

We didn’t include our parents or siblings and that was the hardest part. But we’re completely at peace with our choice. Plus it helped that we had a post-wedding reception weeks later for our family and friends. In essence we got to have two weddings! (Which was a lot more work so I know all about that kind of wedding too.)

ewp_3969Did you have any ‘issues’ with the small guest list from friends and family?

My mom and one of my sister’s had a hard time accepting that they weren’t included until they realized how happy it would make us to get married on our own terms.

If so, how did you address them?

I just explained to them that it was our dream to get married this way and that we knew they wanted us to be happy. They couldn’t argue with that. They became very supportive. We had the ceremony videotaped and we made a photo album of it for them afterwards so they could see it moment for moment.

What were the highlights of the ceremony?

When we read our vows, with the ocean in front of us and birds calling above us, and when our JP pronounced us husband and wife.

What were the highlights of the reception?

It was so relaxed and full of joy. Because it was so intimate, we were able to simply have fun and revel in the moments. There was no crowd to worry about. We changed out of our formals and got comfortable. We were able to let our instincts run the show… ‘Who wants to go in the hot tub?’ It was so great.

What was the best thing about having an intimate wedding?

The freedom to express our feelings during the ceremony, particularly the groom. That made for an especially personal and lovely experience. I know he didn’t want to “get it over with” like some grooms who feel the pressure of a big audience.

ewp_4069What advice do you have for couples who are considering an intimate wedding?

It can definitely be simpler than planning a bigger wedding, but you can still pull out a few stops. If you want to wear your dream dress, do it. You only get married once {well, not always} and it feels amazing to appear how you truly want to on your wedding day, no matter the size of the guest list.

Vendors:

Erin Wallis Photography (AMAZING!)

Photos: Erin Wallis Photography

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